
I guess its that time of the year! Back to school time and Spring, bring with them the pursuit of soul mates. For some reason or another it seems, during these seasons more than others, we are constantly quizzed on our view of relationship, dating, and pursuing marriage.
Just so you guys don't think my answers are totally crazy, I found someone else who, for the most part, agrees with me. Michael Lawrence, an elder at Capitol Hill Baptist Church has written an excellent article on the issue of marriage. The article is titled, "Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend!"
While the article is directed at men, the ladies will also be able to deduce some pratical wisdom. The article deals with the selfishness that usually characterizes this issue. Lawrence gives good advice on how to ask the right questions and seek the right things when pursuing a wife.
While I have not read much on the rest of the website, you can access the article here. Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend
As I read the article, I was reminded that much of your frustration in finding a wife could be avoid by remembering to apply the gospel to your relationships with potential mates. Lawrence puts it this way:
The problem of course is that as a single Christian man, not only are you going to marry a sinner, but you are a sinner as well.
From a consumeristic perspective, no woman on this planet is ever going to perfectly meet your specifications. What's more, your unexamined requirements for a spouse are inevitably twisted by your own sinful nature. The Bible reminds us that though our marriages are to be pictures of the gospel relationship between Christ and the church, none of us get to marry Jesus. Instead, like Hosea, we all marry Gomer; that is to say, we all marry another sinner, whom God intends to use to refine and grow our faith in Jesus.